Being gentle isn't being weak but a power that doesn't force or disturb.
Gentleness comes from the heart and requires awareness and sensitivity.
If being gentle doesn't come easy to you, start by being gentle with yourself first.
You will experience all attainments when there is faith.
At the end of each day, check if you are aware of and experiencing the things that you have attained for the day.
If you are not able to experience the attainments, it means you do not have sufficient faith in yourself or in the things that are happening.
Tell yourself each day that you have the faith in yourself and in things that they will ultimately turn out to be the best. When you practice in this way you can begin to experience your attainments.