Inner child

All our problems that we encounter externally or internally are because there is emotional baggage between our true self our original self and our present self. It doesn't mean we become like a child wanting everything we see or throwing a tantrum when we can't get it, or telling every thing we feel too everyone. No it's much more wholistic than that. You may need a guide, a counsellor or a psychologist. If your really desperate you can email me (daniel.healy9@gmail.com) I have some really cool meditations.